20 days from heaven to hell! What did Ah Sa go through?

Jiuzhi Entertainment News Who would have thought that 43-year-old Cai Zhuoyan's marriage had reached the edge of a cliff before the overwhelming blessings spread across the Internet dissipated.
Late at night on May 18, Hong Kong media dropped a bombshell: Ah Sa, who had only been married for 20 days, had already collapsed and cried to his friends that "I can't go on". Not only did he delete all marriage-related developments on social platforms, he also packed up his luggage overnight and moved out of their cohabitation mansion in Repulse Bay, Hong Kong. This "New Year's Love Fairy Tale", which was envied by countless people, was shattered into glass debris in the most tragic way.

It only took 20 days to go from blessing on the whole network to heartbreaking on the whole network
Back on April 28, A Sa posted a high-profile wedding photo on Weibo with the caption "Congratulations on marrying you, congratulations on marrying me", which instantly exploded the entire Internet.
In the photo, she smiled with curled eyebrows and nestled in the arms of fitness coach Lin Junxian, who was 10 years younger than her, with her eyes full of longing for the future. This fate, mediated by close friend Guan Zhibin, has been regarded by countless people as a model of "healing is related to love."
At the beginning of 2025, A Sa's old waist injury recurred due to years of filming. Guan Zhibin introduced his personal fitness trainer Lin Junxian to her. Lin Junxian is a bachelor's degree in sports science from the Hong Kong Polytechnic University, a former swimmer of the Hong Kong team, and also won the runner-up in the Hong Kong Bodybuilding Competition. He opens a high-end fitness studio in Central. The fee for a single class is as high as HK$2000. He is also young and promising.
In order to provide rehabilitation training for Ah Sa, he is always extremely patient. After practice, he will help her rub her shoulders and relax, and even specially prepare healthy fat-reducing meals for her. Over and over again, the two turned from coaches and students to lovers. From the acquaintance in early 2025 to the marriage in April 2026, the whole journey took only 9 months. It only took 3 months from the public relationship to the registration. It was a real flash marriage.
At that time, everyone thought that Ah Sa, who had experienced three emotional injuries, had finally found the person who could give her a sense of security. Ah Sa's mother even praised this son-in-law to the media as "surprisingly OK, good character and emotionally stable." Gillian threw a diamond necklace worth 540,000 Hong Kong dollars as a wedding gift. Friends in the circle such as Joey Rong and Huo Wenxi sent blessings one after another, and there were almost zero negative reviews on the entire network.
But who would have thought that the shelf life of happiness would only be 20 days?
Three obstacles have crushed this "fairy tale marriage"
According to exclusive reports from Hong Kong media, this seemingly perfect marriage actually buried hidden dangers from the beginning. What overwhelmed it were three obstacles that could not be overcome.
The first obstacle is the inequality of voice caused by economic disparity.
Ah Sa has been in the industry for 26 years and has a net worth of more than 100 million yuan. He owns 5 properties in Hong Kong alone and shares in many companies. Although Lin Junxian earns a lot of money, the gap is still huge compared with Ah Sa. After the two lived together, almost all of the rent, utilities, and daily expenses were borne by Ah Sa. Even part of the expansion funds of Lin Junxian's Fitness Studio was funded by Ah Sa.
According to a person familiar with the matter, after marriage, Lin Junxian began to frequently use Ah Sa's fame to expand customer base. He not only placed a photo of the two in a conspicuous position in the studio, but also declared that he was "Ah Sa's exclusive coach," resulting in the price of a single class. Doubled. This made Ah Sa, who had always been low-key, very dissatisfied, and the two had quarreled many times about it.
The second hurdle is the controversy over the man's private life before marriage.
In fact, when the two officially announced their marriage, some netizens found out that Lin Junxian had used dating software to seduce many female Internet celebrities in 2021, and female Internet celebrities posted chat records to prove it. At that time, Ah Sa chose to trust her boyfriend, thinking that it was all in the past.
But shortly after the marriage, a friend told Ah Sa that Lin Junxian was still using dating software and even had dinner appointments with strange women a week before the wedding. When Ah Sa questioned Lin Junxian, he not only did not explain, but instead accused Ah Sa of not trusting him. Then he began to be cold and violent. He did not go home for several days in a row, did not answer phone calls, or responded to messages.
The third hurdle is the huge difference in three views and living habits.
Ah Sa has been in the industry for many years and has long become accustomed to a low-key life. He does not like to socialize. In his spare time, he prefers to cook at home, raise cats, and gather with friends. Lin Junxian, on the other hand, is outgoing and likes to be lively. He goes out for drinks and bars with friends almost every night, and often goes home until three or four in the morning.
Once, Ah Sa wanted to rest early and let Lin Junxian go home early because she had to catch an early flight the next day. As a result, not only did Lin Junxian not reply, he also posted a photo in his circle of friends of partying with his friends in a bar, accompanied by the text "Long live singles." This became the last straw that crushed the camel. Ah Sa was completely cold and decided to move away.
Three emotional injuries, why does she always fall in the same pit?
After the news was exposed, the topic of # Love Ah Sa# quickly hit the top of the hot search search. While netizens felt sorry for her, they couldn't help but sigh: Why did she always fall in the same pit?
Looking back on Sa's emotional journey, it is simply a "history of bad luck."
The first relationship was a hidden marriage with Zheng Zhongji for four years. Sa, 24, and Chung Chung Ki, 34, secretly registered their marriage in the United States in 2006. For the sake of her husband's family reputation and her idol career, she hid her wedding news for four years, even huddling in the trunk of her car to avoid paparazzi. But what they got was Zheng Zhongji's scandals again and again. In 2010, the marriage certificate was exposed by the media, and the two had to hold a press conference to announce their divorce. At the press conference, Zheng Zhongji cried and lost his composure, but Ah Sa calmly handed over a tissue and responded in a clear and orderly manner, using "no third party" to preserve his dignity. In fact, he was already heartbroken.
The second relationship was a five-year brother-in-law relationship with Chen Weiting. Only three months after the divorce, A Sa and her junior brother Chen Weiting, who was 12 years younger than her, fell in love because of drama. At that time, Chen Weiting was still a "newbie king for thousands of years" and was far less famous than Ah Sa. The outside world was not optimistic about this "strong female and weak male" sister-in-law love. But Ah Sa didn't care. Not only did he generously acknowledge his love, but he also personally took Chen Weiting to attend various activities to expand his connections and angrily scolded the "soft fan man." However, when Chen Weiting became famous in the mainland with his "Ancient Sword and Qi Tan", the two gradually drifted apart due to the small gathering and separation, and finally broke up peacefully.
The third relationship is a six-year relationship with Shi Hengcong, the "Prince of the Ten Billion Mahjong Hall". This relationship once reached the point of discussing marriage. Ah Sa even froze his eggs for him and actively integrated into his family and accompanied him to worship his ancestors. However, Shi Hengcong refused to get married and just wanted to keep falling in love. In 2023, the two separated peacefully due to "inappropriate rhythm."
Three times when she was hurt, she loved her without reservation and did her best every time. But every time, she was injured black and blue all over. This time, she thought she had found someone who could give her a sense of security, but she fell into the trap of "sister-in-law love" and "flash marriage" again.
In fact, A Sa has never been a person who lacks love. She has a successful career, close friends, and family who love her. She just longed too much to have a home of her own and to have someone to rely on.
But love has never been a required course in life, and marriage is not the only answer to happiness. The 43-year-old Ah Sa is excellent enough and independent enough to not need to prove his worth through marriage.
I hope she can be completely awake this time and stop wronged herself for the so-called "sense of security." I also hope she can understand that the best love is never attachment, but two independent souls that attract each other, respect each other, and accompany each other.
No matter what choice she makes, we bless her. After all, the girl who sang "Next Stop, the Queen of Heaven" deserves the best happiness.