"Forgive me for being blunt" Tranquility: If I don't go to acting programs, the mentors are all my descendants

Introduction: The ninth issue (Part 2) of the first male and female thinking puzzle program produced by Tencent Video,"Forgive me for Speaking Out", has been officially launched. The flying guests of this program, including actor Tranquility and emotion expert Tu Lei, continue to sit down with the resident male and female hosts Cai Kangyong and Jiang Shuying discuss "quarrels and marriage." Last week's program mainly discussed how men and women should face and resolve conflicts in love. This week, we will focus on sharing the business of both parties after marriage and how to grasp the scale of quarrels. Tranquely sharing his mentality in his previous marriage, Tu Lei also exposed the contrast between his family and work. In addition, Ning Jing also responded to how to resolve conflicts with female stars in reality shows and how to deal with disputes at work, which is full of interesting points.

Ning Jing talks again about travel reality show contradictions and complaints about acting skills reality show

This issue of "Pardon me to be blunt" continues the discussion of the topic of "quarrels and marriage". In addition to emotional conflicts, Cai Kangyong's questioning of Ning Jing may cause unpleasant situations in his work, but he did not expect Ning Jing not only answered generously, but also talked eloquently about the topic of "acting skills". Not only did she bluntly say that "actors can perform with zero skills, but they require great acting talent," but she also talked about a certain acting reality show, saying that the comments on the program all have personal opinions and insights. It all depends on whether the actor can receive this message. In addition, Ning Jing also said that a friend of her had also participated in the show, but the actress's performance was greatly questioned. Ning Jing strongly supported her: "That may indeed be a manifestation of lack of confidence. Everyone may 'eat screws' when talking, but who stipulates that you can't laugh?" As for acting programs, Ning Jing confessed that "I won't go. The instructors are all my juniors and I won't accept their comments." The scale of the conversation made Cai Kangyong speechless for a moment.

In addition, Jiang Shuying and Ning Jing had participated in a certain travel reality show and had disputes with their female companions during the process. Jiang Shuying chose to actively communicate with each other about the conflict at the time. After arguing with each other and venting their emotions, they reconciled with each other and are still well-known best friends in the entertainment industry. However, Tranquility has another way to resolve conflicts. It chooses to "disguise" to integrate into the collective, and also self-deprecates that "I get used to it by pretending, but instead integrates into the entire collective." When Cai Kangyong asked,"How to resolve the knots in each other's hearts," Ning Jing calmly said,"The tour guide was also very hard and difficult at that time, so why bother?" Her clear personality of likes and dislikes also made people sigh. The title of "Goddess of True Nature" is indeed worthy of its reputation.

Tu Lei was "shut up" by his wife and quietly accepted her boyfriend's proposal for half a second

. Regarding the quarrel in marriage life, Tu Lei not only stood from the perspective of a love mentor, but also shared many truths with the audience based on the experience of someone who had been there. When evaluating the peaceful character, Tu Lei bluntly said that the best character of a girl is that "she doesn't cause trouble and is not afraid of trouble when it comes." He also shared that she once had a kidney stone at home. His wife calmly ran back and forth to call an ambulance for Tu Lei., packing up documents, etc. At that time, his wife said,"Actually, I want to cry, but what will you do if I cry?", which well explains the state of couples supporting each other and shielding each other from the wind and rain in marriage. When Cai Kangyong asked,"Do you tell your wife these principles at home?" Tu Lei said,"Sometimes I do, but his wife replied,'Don't talk nonsense to me, do you think you are still a love expert at home?'" The contrasting image of the cold-faced mentor made the scene laugh endlessly, but also inspired the audience: marriage can compromise oneself and fulfill each other.

In addition to Tu Lei, Ning Jing also had a marriage. Before this relationship, Ning Jing revealed that her ideal was to "get married and have a few children." Therefore, when her boyfriend proposed, she agreed almost without consideration, but she was not sure whether this decision was really good. Tranquility revealed that the wedding was held in a well-known chapel abroad. Although it was not grand, it had different meanings and warm memories. Regarding this courageous marriage, Cai Kangyong asked: "If I had to do it again, would I have decided to marry him so quickly?" Ning Jing replied: "I would consider it more carefully, but people always have to experience it personally to slowly accumulate the lessons of life."

Tu Lei talks about the historical allusions of "wedding" and the surprising differences in marriage surveys between men and women

."Forgive me for being blunt" In each episode, we will raise some "myths" based on the theme of the current period, and invite boys and girls from different fields to form a "blunt family" to jointly dispel the truth of "myths". This episode mainly focuses on "marriage" and "quarrels in marriage". In this regard, it also raises the question of whether marriage proposal, wedding photos, weddings, and honeymoon are necessary for marriage." On the program, Tu Lei shared the allusions to the ancient wedding custom in China."In the past, two people had never seen each other before getting married. When they got married, they had to lift a sedan chair to pick up the woman, so a grand wedding is particularly important." The survey results show that 58.7% of girls think a wedding is necessary, while 55.7% of boys think a wedding is unnecessary. The data visually shows the audience the different views of men and women on marriage. The biggest difference is the behavior of "honeymoon". 60.6% of boys think it is unnecessary, and 71.3% of girls think it is necessary. Tu Lei put forward different views on "honeymoon". He believes that "men and women should travel together before marriage. You can determine whether they are suitable for each other."

In the eyes of the "Straight Talk Family", two of the boys believe that "proposing marriage" is the most important link, and this moment is the most precious and important moment that can be given to girls. However, the female camp has different views, saying that "the wedding may be the only" highlight moment "when a girl plays the lead in her life. The trivial marriage life in the future may depend on the memories of the wedding moment to support it." This also shows the difference in the thinking of men and women. It is also the problem that every man and woman who are about to enter the marriage hall is facing. "Forgive me for being blunt" allows each couple to better view these problems that may be trivial or ordinary, but everyone may experience or even lead to a breakup by "bluntly" different opinions. The term "entertaining" can also explain the valuable value that "With all due respect" can bring in the era of "entertainment to death".

At the end of the program, Cai Kangyong and Tu Lei's discussion on "The Art of Life" is a perfect interpretation of the meaning of "Forgive me for Speaking bluntly". There are more exciting topics waiting for the audience to join the discussion in the future. At 8 o'clock next Thursday evening, well-known writer Guo Jingming and host Zhu Dan will be guests on "Forgive me for Speaking bluntly" to discuss "men and women in the workplace" with everyone. Stay tuned!