This "Asia's No. 1" love makes people both envious and sad

many years ago, the king of sunglasses was still very coquettish, and Takeshi Kaneshiro was somewhere between the loveliness of a teenager and the sexiness of a man. when they filmed Chongqing Forest together, they raised the ultimate puzzle about love--

what else in the world will not expire?

saury expires and meat sauce expires, while love, like canned pineapples, has an expiration date and will be thrown into the dustbin after May 1st.

many years later, a man named Gui Junmin used to freeze his love at-196 degrees to extend the so-called period to eternity.

who is Gui Junmin?

Gui Junmin is a very ordinary man in real life.

at the same time, he is very special.

because he is the husband of the first frozen person in Asia .

on May 8, 2017, due to brain metastasis from lung cancer, Zhan Wenlian, the lover of Gui Junmin, left.

however, Gui Jun and the people who lost their loved ones did not put up a monument to their loved ones.

during the period when her lover was ill in bed, Gui Junmin watched her weaken day by day and there was nothing she could do about it.

the depressed Gui Junmin sometimes chatted with the director of the hospital, who told him that now there is a cryopreservation technology, which can first let the lover fall asleep, and then wake up when the science and technology is more advanced.

many people have heard of cryopreservation technology, but to ordinary people, it is like a scene in a science fiction movie, very illusory and far away.

the army and people of Gui finally agreed to try.

the decision was made not on impulse, but after careful consideration; he even made a long and distant preparation.

Gui Junmin said that his first task now is to exercise well so that he can wait until the day when science and technology develops. If he doesn't wait until his death comes, he will freeze himself.

because he is afraid that one day in the future, when technology really succeeds, his lover will wake up and face a world that is completely strange and no one knows.

in that case, at least there will be an old man there, always with her for a while.

he didn't ask for much, but wanted to stay with her for a while anyway.

even though he has been with her for more than 30 years.

Gui Junmin and his lover Zhan Wenlian began to fall in love in the third year of junior high school.

in my senior year, my lover came with a marriage certificate from a secret relationship and said, "I want to go home with you to meet my parents."

"she chased me" . When Gui Junmin mentioned this story, they laughed helplessly and spoiled, as if everything had happened yesterday and had not faded at all.

Yes, Gui Junmin always smiles when he mentions his lover.

his grief is in his eyes, and tears always move involuntarily in his eyes, but he laughs happily as long as he talks about the past events related to his lover.

the kind of love that is disliked in the mouth, but behind the tone is proud, which cannot be hidden.

the love of ordinary people is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea in the end.

there are contradictions and quarrels, and there is no heroic desire to save beauty. Only "I am the one who knows you best in the world."

is to know that you like to clean up your room when you are angry, so if you are lazy to do housework, you will deliberately make you angry;

you know how to cheer you up, so what if you are thick-skinned, as long as you are no longer angry.

they have been together for more than 30 years, and every time they turn their heads, the only place around them is each other. Those ordinary and ordinary streets have witnessed the happiness of this couple, that is, the world.

now, looking silently at the figure he misses alone, there is a large empty space around .

Guangxi army and people love to raise plants, and the balcony of the family is green.

there is a tiger skin orchid beside the tall flowers in the living room.

he stroked with his hand, saying that he was only so high when his lover died.

now it has to be tied and fixed with a rope, otherwise it will not be supported if it is too high.

he is a rough man, unable to say delicate and moving words; even such thoughts can only be said dryly: plants are sometimes very strange, you say dead, it is still alive.

but at that moment, I suddenly remembered the last passage that Bai Xianyong wrote in "the Tree is still the same"--

"the old tea that Wang Guoxiang and I planted before (Wang Guoxiang died) more than 20 years later, we have climbed the eaves, and there are hundreds of them in full bloom. Spring greetings, I sit in the garden armchair, tea to read the newspaper, accompanied by a hundred flowers, temporarily greedy to enjoy the prosperity of the world. The only drawback is that when I look up, I can always see the central and western corners of the garden, and there is a corrugated blank between the remaining two Italian cypress trees. in the middle of the gap is Zhanzhan blue sky and leisurely white clouds, which is a crack in the sky that Nu WA cannot make up for. "

he joined hands with Wang Guoxiang for more than 30 years, sharing weal and woe until Wang Guoxiang passed away. Gui's army and people also joined hands with their loved ones for more than 30 years, sharing ups and downs and staying in front of the hospital bed.

one of them is a prodigy of contemporary Chinese short story writers, and the other is only a staff member of Jinan living in ordinary institutions; however, the thoughts of this moment are tightly connected through time and space.

at this moment, how can human joys and sorrows be disconnected?

Li Shi said," We are human beings, and we do understand. "

at the end, he stood in the open night and said, "if I'm really unconscious, don't keep me alive. If death works the way you want it to, it's not death."

but facing the Gui army and people, he put away those witty remarks from beginning to end, and no longer had the sharpness that had been hidden under the Buddha nature.

in just ten minutes, he has always played the role of a listener.

gentle, peaceful, as if to express in such a posture: no matter whose, or what kind of missing, do not need any judgment from outsiders.

this is Li's attitude towards "missing", and it is also brought about by Li's

missing things

this interview of the same name produced by missing food , very short, 5 episodes, 1 episode 20 minutes.

missing this brand should be no stranger to everyone. For 22 years now, the brand has been working hard on "what we produce is not frozen food but yearning delicacy." now, in order to better implement their own ideas, specially planned this program about family affection, love, yearning, reunion and other beautiful existence.

is also very simple.

A few warm lanterns, a small restaurant called missing, a plate of missing dumplings, a quiet listener, a listener who falls into memories.

the night is short, but the missing is very long.

the posters on the wall

some netizens say that yearning happens anytime, anywhere, in thousands of ways.

it's like the love between Gui Junmin and Zhan Wenlian in the second phase;

it's like the mutual dislike between the prodigal son Bai Minghui and his mother in the fourth phase;

I'm afraid he didn't take a monitor to monitor me and my mother's adults all the time

like the" Fifth Spring "of Lu Qinyi and his parents in the first phase.

in 16 years, when his sister died of lung cancer, Director Lu suddenly realized that his father's body was beginning to age, so he had to stop filming for 10 years and edited every bit about his parents from 2013 to 2016.

at that time, he didn't want to shoot "four Springs", he just wanted to record the beautiful appearance of his parents. because in his eyes, his parents were particularly beautiful.

however, in a short period of two or three years, my father's body gradually collapsed, and it was visible to the naked eye that it went from bad to worse.

Director Lu said that the best gift his parents gave him was tenderness.

"in retrospect, my family was really happy. "

even in the Tale of missing things, the parents are still like the fifth spring, but this spring still has the cruelty of time.

Director Lu blushed and sang in front of his parents. He didn't have much time to stay with him.

time is in a hurry, and no one can stop it. How long can we stay with our parents off the screen?

Love, kinship, friendship, and so on, most of the time, we are all the same, powerless and unforgettable.

but even so, human beings have never been swallowed up by despair.

because more often, I see more people, listen to more stories, and experience more ups and downs in the world. In the end, I will understand that everyone's joys and sorrows are so pure under those sharp edges and corners.

is a soft heart wrapped in a hard shell left over the years, an unquenchable hope.

maybe people should not only use fearlessness to cut through thorns and thorns all their lives.

what's more, light a fire of missing in your heart.

because my heart belongs to my home, if I have something in mind, I will not have no place to go.

in addition to Lu Qingyi, the director of four Springs in the article, frozen husband Gui Junmin, and Bai Minghui, the prodigal son of the family, the protagonists of this program also include dog guardian Fan Yu and post-90s army wife Xie Shengnan.