The cheating rate among Chinese women reaches 80%: Survey reveals 5 truths about cheating

When it comes to the word "cheating", most people think that the cheating party after marriage is usually a man, but according to the survey data, the cheating rate of Chinese women has soared from 40% to 60%. At this stage, it has reached 80%!

A questionnaire on cheating attitudes swept the Internet a few days ago, and more than 70,000 interviewees participated in the survey. the results are sad. Which one scared you?

the cheating rate of Chinese women is as high as 80%

< strong > data survey: five truths about cheating < / strong >

< strong > 1. The rate of female infidelity is about to catch up with that of men < / strong >

the probability of female infidelity is increasing year by year, which has a lot to do with the change of women's social status. Women become more and more independent in gender relations, and there is no need for men to support her. In ancient times, the cheating rate of women was low, because the status of women in the family was too low. At that time, women married to make a living, and men married for women's fertility and family function.

however, modern women have higher and higher requirements for marriage, and they pay more attention to their emotional needs. they not only hope that the man they marry loves her, but also hope that when they are financially independent, men can bring her more benefits.

so once a man fails to meet a woman's expectations of her partner in marriage emotionally and financially, she will betray her marriage and have an affair when there is a high-quality "alternative choice" around her.

< strong > 2. Mental infidelity is more likely to lead to remorse < / strong >

according to survey data, mental infidelity is more likely to cause self-remorse, especially for men, men are more likely to have physical infidelity after marriage. They will regard this physical release as normal behavior that satisfies male instincts, and it is easier to convince themselves that physical infidelity is not a betrayal of marriage.

different from mental infidelity, mental infidelity will lead to physical infidelity, the combination of the two will make it impossible for people to face their partner sincerely, and their inner guilt will be expressed in their behavior. will use another way to make up for their apologies to their partners and calm their inner self-remorse.

although you blame yourself, if your partner finds out that you are having an affair, you will not admit to having an affair, but will deny it, cover it up, and refuse to admit that you have betrayed your marriage. there are even a large number of people who force themselves to think they have never done anything wrong to their partner.

< strong > 3. High-income groups are more likely to cheat < / strong >

according to the influence of income on cheating behavior, people find that people with higher income are more likely to cheat, indicating that cheating is closely related to people's social status, especially for men, the higher his social status, the more money he earns, the more he needs to prove his male attractiveness, while extramarital affairs are considered by some men to best reflect male value and create a sense of achievement.

for a woman, if her husband is not ambitious and promising, and she is a strong woman, their family relationship model is higher in women and lower in men, and career women will have the same curiosity as men. pursue a man who is better than his spouse to find his sense of value in the eyes of the opposite sex.

< strong > 4. Men like to "eat" with strangers < / strong >

when men are dissatisfied with the status quo of their marriage, they will fill their gaps by meeting strangers, such as online dating through social platforms, or meeting strangers through parties, or even directly through paid services to meet their male needs, which is more exciting and safer for them.

for women, however, the object of a woman's affair is usually her old classmates, friends, male girlfriends, and the backup group lurking around her, because it is very difficult for a woman to have sex with strangers, and people who know her better understand her. and it makes her feel more reliable.

and according to survey data, women choose to cheat, usually after a heated argument with their partner or after the Cold War, because of extreme disappointment. Once a woman has an affair, she is more likely to break up with her original partner than a man, and she will frankly admit her cheating behavior after being found out by her partner.

< strong > 5. The older you are, the more common it is to cheat. < / strong >

Research data show that people in the 35-45 age group have the highest rate of infidelity. The age of 35 or 45 is a milestone in life. People will suddenly realize that their years are about to pass away and have an inexplicable sense of crisis.

if you have negative feelings about the status quo of marriage and your current partner at this time, or if you have fallen into a period of marital burnout and lived a formal husband-and-wife life, you will be more likely to have an affair.

regardless of the cause of the affair, the affair means the destruction of the marital relationship and the betrayal of the partner's loyalty. if you want to repair the rift in the marriage, you need to make more efforts to turn the situation around. (article from Dafeng: orange emotion)