Meng Fei will host the "New dating Conference" and said: don't believe in love strategies.

< spannew matchmaking product": the intergenerational matchmaking show "New matchmaking Conference", which takes the form of children and parents to go on a blind date together, will be unveiled in 2019. It is worth noting that the New dating Convention continues to be hosted by Meng Fei-in addition, he hosts if you are the one, and the New dating era, which has caused many topics in 2018, will launch a new season in 2019. In fact, in addition to Jiangsu Satellite TV's matchmaking programs, it is not difficult to see from the major satellite TV's production plans for next year that matchmaking will be hot again in 2019, and "China's New blind date" will also have a second season. in addition, there will be new programs such as "Dear mother-in-law" and "Love Dream Space". As a regular variety show, how to keep it attractive?

< strong > "New matchmaking meeting"-- < spantext-indent: 2em;" > provide a collision space for "prospective parents-in-law" < / span > < / strong >

after "if you are the one" and "New matchmaking era", Jiangsu Satellite TV launched a "new matchmaking convention". When it comes to the difference from other matchmaking programs, Zhang Hongyan, producer of "New matchmaking Conference", revealed that the program will have the design of "in-laws against each other."

Zhang Hongyan noticed that in the past, intergenerational dating programs magnified the collision of views between children and parents discussing the existence of love and marriage, but the space for positive communication between the families of both parties was extremely limited. Therefore, the "new matchmaking meeting" allows both parents to sit on the first scene at the same time, "your in-laws still have five seconds to arrive on the battlefield." This design provides a more open and transparent "point of view collision space" for dating families. It is reported that the program will also open up "privileges" for parents, and before their children make a choice, parents can secretly choose "heartfelt families" after seeing six groups of families.

the "new matchmaking meeting" is chosen by parents to "love the family", so what kind of choice will young men and women make between "they like" and "parents like"? The program team of "New dating Conference" told reporters that only with the two recordings completed so far, the overlap of parents' and children's choices is very high, that is, the overlap between "parents' satisfaction" and "self-love" is relatively high, and when it comes to the final choice stage, it is still a difficult problem for "I love" and "love me" to choose between them.

in addition, there will be many invisible "confrontations" between dating families in the program, reflecting not only your feelings, but also their love and marriage choices that show all aspects of life, which is the most real face of matchmaking in today's society. Zhang Hongyan said: "I think the whole feeling of blind date is vivid and real."

< strong > getting rid of the single "rigid demand" helps-- < spantext-indent: 2em;" > intergenerational dating and observation love and social programs have become hot spots < / span > < / strong >

2018. "if you are the one" is still Jiangsu TV's insistence on Saturday night. In addition, intergenerational matchmaking such as "New dating era" and "China New dating" have also left a deep impression on viewers. The number of matchmaking shows will continue to increase in 2019. The reporter learned that intergenerational dating programs and star-combined observation love social programs all appear in the production plans of first-line satellite TV and are expected to become hot spots on the screen in 2019.

before the "New dating Convention", the intergenerational dating show "New dating era" and "Chinese New dating" have gained a good reputation this year. Among them, the 12 episodes of the first season of the New dating era successfully held hands with 32 pairs of male and female guests, with a success rate of 88.8%. After witnessing the fierce collision of intergenerational views on love and marriage throughout the season, host Meng Fei said that his attitude towards parents' participation in matchmaking has changed: "Today, the parents of young people have shown a degree of openness and tolerance on the issue of matchmaking. Far more than I can imagine. I used to think that young people should choose their own marriage on their own, but on stage I saw that parents are more willing to get to know their children, which corrects my past perception of this (parents' participation in blind dates). " In 2019, "New dating era" and "Chinese New dating" will have a new season of return.

in addition, a program called "Dear mother-in-law" is also planned, which is defined as "large-scale intergenerational emotion Reality Show". What kind of contest will there be between male guests and "mother-in-law"? I believe it will attract the attention of the audience.

this year, in addition to intergenerational matchmaking, there has also been a lot of popularity in programs where people fall in love and socialize, and guests observe and comment.

in the variety show "Heart signal", plain people are in charge of socializing, and popular artists act as "heart detectives" to analyze their situation in the studio and give opinions. This program has achieved good results in all the major lists after it was broadcast. At present, similar programs also appear in the investment promotion plan of first-line satellite TV next year, in which Jiangsu Satellite TV announced that it would create a "good encounter" of Reality Show focusing on post-90s social observation, and Hunan Satellite TV launched "Love Dream Space". Zhejiang Satellite TV wants to produce "heart-to-heart honey words" of "guessing reasoning".... As for video sites, Tencent Video's "Heart signal 2" and iqiyi's "Love Catcher" are all observational Reality Show that locates the social interaction of young people. Some viewers believe that there is no problem with the choice of guests of this kind of programs, but they do not know each other anyway, and it is very important to observe the positioning of the guests. "not only should they have a sense of variety, but they should also have a distinct personality and rich experience, so that they can collide with sparks."

< strong > "blind date" is a family program-- < spantext-indent: 2em;" > conventional themes < / span > < / strong >

emotion is a kind of "rigid need", and dating is a hot topic in the emotional world. Emotional programs do this proposition thoroughly and attract attention. However, with so many dating shows, what new tricks can be made?

to explore new possibilities in conventional themes, Zhang Hongyan, producer of "New dating Convention", is very confident. She insists that "Family watching" still has a large market at present, and should not give up lightly. At the same time, she also believes that dating shows should make new highlights under the renovation of the rules. "because people always have such emotional needs, such programs always have their own survival market and space."

families have single children and anxious parents; excellent marriageable young people are unwilling to blindly follow them-- there are naturally various intergenerational and standpoint differences between marriage choices and lovers' relationships, parents and children, boys' families and girls' families, which provides a new creative space for TV dating programs.

some viewers have questioned that young people, especially those with good conditions, may not be just blind dates, but Zhang Hongyan believes that the parents who take part in the program are serious. While producing the New era of dating, she found that, "these parents are really looking for daughter-in-law and her son-in-law!" If our male and female directors, the staff at the scene and the later staff can meet and feel single, they all have to be asked by them, 'why don't you come with our children, or you can think about it'. " Parents who worry about their children's marital affairs have been anxious since before they took the stage. They are still anxious when they get off the stage, and even send things to directors in order to try to win their children a chance to go on a blind date. "these parents are really real and anxious," sighs the producer.

Meng Fei, who has spent nine years on the stage of marriage and dating shows, said, "our city is changing with each passing day, but I think our pursuit of marital happiness, the sweetness of love, and the pursuit of a better life have not changed. That's why I still have food to eat for so many years. For the new dating model, Meng Fei believes that the evaluation of each program needs time and market test: "for programs, for many things, I also need to have an open mind to learn and accept."

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in the latest issue of if you are the one, Meng Fei said that many young people like to collect "love strategies" online when they are in love. Meng Fei put forward a different opinion: "Don't believe those strategies." In the

program, a male guest said that he had tried to search the Internet to learn how to fall in love. Female contestant Yang Zehui also said that she had seen some "love strategies" on the Internet. "later, I found that it was useless, and the focus was on how to improve myself and let others feel your sincerity is the most important."

in response to this, Meng Fei said: "some young people really do not recommend reading this type of book or signing up for this type of class when they are not in a good relationship. I think emotion needs to be learned, and it needs to be learned all one's life. " Meng Fei stressed: "if there has to be a rule that applies anywhere in a relationship or interpersonal relationship, there is only one thing I can say: sincerity, not any skill. Taking a sincere heart is better than anything else."

before, Meng Fei also threw cold water on male and female guests who had high expectations for love. "instead of fantasizing about what love will be like in the future, it's better to like someone from the bottom of your heart and try to socialize. You will see what will happen in this process, learn how to love in the process of love, and grow in the process of experience." After the

program was broadcast, some netizens said that "I heard that my heart had gone". "you can win the hearts of the people with tricks and strategies, but love and marriage must be two sincere and suitable people who are comfortable together."