Little S husband is suspected to cheat again: you are so excellent, why do you use grievances to seek perfection?
01 grievances may not be able to seek perfection recently, Taiwan media have made new achievements, and Xiao S's husband, Hsu Yajun, has been photographed lingering in nightclubs. Not only that, the Taiwanese media revealed that Xiao S's husband also introduced the "job" to the hot girl and transferred 10,000 yuan to the other side for charity. The man who killed a thousand dollars was later arrested in the hospital and confessed the reason for the premeditated murder of his wife.
01 grievances may not be able to seek perfection
recently, Taiwan media have made new achievements, and Xiao S's husband Hsu Yajun has been photographed lingering in nightclubs. He has always been good at flirting, and this time he was allowed to escort a hot girl home.
not only that, the Taiwanese media revealed that Xiao S's husband also introduced the" job "to the hot girl and transferred 10,000 < strong > to the other for charity < / strong >.
from the exposed chat records that are not sure whether they are real or not, we can see that this hot girl is a young model in Taiwan, and she is grateful for Hsu Yajun's generosity. "I don't know how much longer he can take care of me."
OMG! Although the news is not real, the amount of information is enough for onlookers.
when everyone guessed how Xiao S would react to the tidbits of her husband this time, on the morning of July 10, Xiao S responded quickly, unexpectedly standing on Xu Yajun's side, magnanimously saying, "my husband is hospitable, there is nothing wrong"
Xu Yajun's side is also a party of friends, there is no transfer.
look at Xiao S's response so skillfully that he takes the initiative to "wash away grievances" for her husband, but onlookers are ungrateful. The first reaction is: is this big pig's hoof having an affair again?
Don't blame everyone for their psychological gloom. < strong > Xu Yajun's tidbits after marriage have risen to a statistical height. < / strong >
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Why bother?
< strong > Marriage is indeed a spiritual practice. Both parties need to cut wings to maintain the balance of marriage. Can they really "seek perfection" in marriage by breaking their own wings and blindly wronging themselves? < / strong >
the more you indulge in TA, the deeper the injury will be. In marriage, if the other person's heart really leaves you, then all your efforts are in vain. Instead of surviving in an ongoing marriage, it is better to break the shackles and live out of yourself.
An aggrieved marriage not only eats away at your youth, destroys your vitality and self-confidence, but even kills you.
02 unlimited tolerance can really kill you
< strong > unlimited tolerance of your partner may not necessarily contain an obedient husband, but it is possible to "train" hooligans who can be killed. < / strong >
on June 9 this year, a couple in Jiangsu Province were visiting Thailand when their pregnant wife suddenly fell off a 34-meter cliff. Fortunately, the mother-to-be miraculously survived.
but more miraculously behind, the first sentence in which a pregnant woman wakes up is to ask her husband" Why did this to her? "it turns out that the culprit that caused her to fall off a high cliff is his own pillow, the child's father.
the man who killed thousands of dollars was later arrested in the hospital and confessed the reason for the premeditated murder of his wife.
because he is idle, does not have a real job, but has debts, in order to repay the debts, he has targeted his wife's wealth of more than 20 million, so he arranged this trip to Thailand to kill his wife.
in order to successfully implement this plan, he also took his wife to the cliff to see the scenery three times before < strong >. < / strong >, he was so vicious that he completely forgot that he pushed his wife and sent his flesh and blood to hell at the same time.
coincidentally, just a few days after the case of pushing his wife off a cliff, the murder of his wife in Phuket will go to trial.
like the husband who pushed his wife off the cliff, this man is also heavily in debt, unemployed but rich to the hostess. < strong > two jackals, pretending to be harmless, praying for his wife's virgin tolerance, but with a butcher's knife on his back. < / strong >
to be kind and tolerant to the enemy is to be cruel to yourself. Whether it's dealing with such a ruthless person, or someone like Xu Yajun who is shy and constantly grieving in marriage, < strong > recognizing that staying away is the best choice to save your life and brain < / strong >.
03 is obviously so aggrieved, but why don't you want to leave?
< strong > in an intimate relationship, grievances can also be addictive. < / strong >
< ul > < li > do you happen to find a super match when you crave to be loved? < / li > < li > he can read your mind, understand your struggle, and even serve the lemonade you want as soon as you raise your hand. < / li > < li > at first he was happy, but soon the Prince Charming seemed to have "faded", but you couldn't bear to leave. < / li > < li > as the relationship deepened, you were belittled, ridiculed, aggrieved, but could not leave him at 01:15 < / li > < / ul >
tortured in grievances, you may have been PUA tricks.many people's deep understanding of PUA comes from the popular science of "Star Detective".
in the sixth case of Ming Detective 4, "Giant want to fall in Love", this dangerous love routine is introduced to everyone with fictional cases.
