Xie Yilin revealed that her mother was mentally ill and had committed suicide several times. Tao Jingying comforted her

(Xie Yilin basks in a group photo with his mother, source network)
According to Taiwan media reports on the 12th, Xie Yilin (sister hold) wrote a long article on the social platform on the 8th to expose the growth process. After reading it, Tao Jingying comforted her in the comment area. Xie Yilin bluntly said in the article that "my mother is a psychosis". She once saved her mother who tried to commit suicide several times. When she was young, she thought about "this must be a stepmother" and imagined what kind of person the real mother was. When she grew up, she began to find ways to get along with her, and now she tries to understand her mother.
Xie Yilin wrote a composition titled "my mother" and admitted that her mother suffered from depression, bipolar disorder and panic disorder. When she was a child, she was often told to do housework, fantasizing that "although everyone didn't say it, I knew in my heart that this must be a stepmother, and the real mother was gentle, fat and earthy." when she grew up, she recognized the truth: "this crazy woman, she is my biological mother." Although she often felt abused or saw her mother beating her father late at night, Xie Yilin always comforted herself that she was not targeted, and her mother's personality extended to her campus life. When she fought with her neighbors when she was a child, her mother went next door to shout and scold, her sister wrote her homework to cry, and her mother rushed to school. And whenever the shift director changes, my mother will write "teacher, Yi Lin is very naughty, please teach her (below the neck) thank you" in the contact book.
In addition, the mother with mental illness also did stupid things several times: "when hanging, the rope was tied and I arrived. As soon as I came home, I found traces of charcoal burning (but she didn't check that the fire was strong enough to fall asleep, and the fire only burned a little and went out). She took a knife to cut my father, and my sister just rushed over and grabbed the white blade with empty hands. Every time, it was so dangerous."
Xie Yilin admitted that the whole family has a melancholy tendency. When her mother looks strange, she will peek at her diary in case of regret. But she once saw: "today is Yilin's birthday on March 19. I took her to buy clothes and hope my children will always be happy." Her tears burst into her eyes. She once hated her mother so much. When she grew up, she began to understand mental illness and face it together. Her mother also began to change with action. "I'm no longer persistent. I've always wanted to change her, complain about her, try to empathize with her, listen to her, and don't deny her even if I don't agree with her, because you're not her, and you can't feel others' feelings." Xie Yilin chose to write down the journey of growth on Mother's day, Sending a happy mother's day also sighed that "happiness has always been blessed, which shows that it is really a difficult thing for him, but try to go in this direction, mom, I love you, and I know that as long as you say I love you, you will be happy".
After reading Xie Yilin's article, Tao Jingying realized that each other's growth process was so hard, and then encouraged and comforted "sometimes, everyone works too hard... Relax, dear and lovely you. Hug".