Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen revealed that there were many hidden dangers in getting together, so they dared not propose.

as Valentine's Day is approaching, du Haitao and Shen Mengchen's idol-like love is the envy of netizens. In the latest issue of a variety show, the two changed the sweetness of the previous issues, borrowed wine to recall the past, and untied the pimples in their hearts.

first Shen Mengchen mentioned that once he was crying a lot, but du Haitao said," Why are you acting here? who are you crying for? "

du Haitao explained that they hadn't seen each other for a long time, and Shen Mengchen still wanted to see his friends that night. For du Haitao, he would rather have dinner with two people, want to know what she likes to eat recently and talk more.

, etc., after Shen Mengchen calmed down, du Haitao said what had been on his mind for a long time and asked Shen Mengchen why he had not had an operation with him before.

, Shen Mengchen also pointed out his difficulties. At that time, he was recording a program on the station and filming. He couldn't ask for leave, and he couldn't let things open the skylight, so he had to make a video call to du Haitao in his spare time.

. From this point of view, the source of the problem that both of them have been struggling with is that they are too busy at work and spend less time together.

Father Shen, who is sitting in the observation room, also believes that the lack of time between the two will be a big problem, fearing that too little contact between the two will lead to some misunderstandings and contradictions.

also revealed that it was precisely because of less gathering and more divorce that Shen Mengchen always dared not say yes to du Haitao's proposal and the whole people's urging for marriage.

, and in the program, Shen Mengchen's reaction also confirmed this. When the two talked about each other's ex, du Haitao said his ex-girlfriend was already a mother of two, and he should do something serious and propose to Shen Mengchen face to face. And Shen Mengchen played tai chi to this, although there is a response, but it is not difficult to see Shen Mengchen's dodging.

as far as Shen's father is concerned, Shen Mengchen also wanted to start a family early, but the choice between family and career after starting a family is no small problem.

and Lisa Cheng also pointed out a real problem: when she withdraws from a large part of her career, it is not up to her to decide whether she will have a job or not.

judging from the situation of du Haitao and Shen Mengchen, getting together less and leaving more is indeed a problem, which has become a common problem for couples in the entertainment industry, and many people break up for this reason.

this is said to be the case with the breakup between Chen Weiting and A sa at that time. At the beginning, their relationship was not recognized by the outside world, but Chen Weiting publicly issued a declaration of love: he loved A Sa very much and said that their love was for the purpose of marriage. After holding hands for five years, I still broke up. It was said that Chen Weiting went to the mainland for development at that time, while A Sa was more in Hong Kong, resulting in a situation of gathering less and leaving more, which led to a breakup.

Gu Tianle did not escape this problem. Huang Jiying is the only girlfriend Gu Tianle has ever admitted. The relationship between the two, which lasted for seven years, also ended in failure. Later, when asked about the reasons for the breakup, Gu Tianle said: because the work is too busy, get together less leave more, often quarrel, in order to avoid greater harm, can only break up.

and as du Haitao said, it is because there are fewer meetings that there are some collisions. And the way to deal with this problem is how to communicate it well, because everyone's idea is for the good of the other. After this hurdle, find a balance, maybe everything will be all right.